tips on how to be a good mother

well i'm not a mother yet,but i have some good ideas on how to be a good mother. 1st, dont be too over protected let your kids have some air for themselves dont let them fell to nervous around you and afraid to tell you things. do stuff that will make your kids talk to you anytime about anything let them have that trust. get in contact with them, make sure they are in the right company at school and has a good education and a steady home. every mother is different nobody is perfect sometimes bad things is going to happen mothers just have to know how to deal with it. kids are not perfect too so mothers shouldnt depend on nothing bad is going to happen. a mother need to be paitient with kids, take interest in your childs interest. dont be tight about money give a little if you have, be supportive and dont laugh at your childs hobbies or friends. admit things you have done wrong and dont lie. always try to be fair in everthing and dont choose one child over the other love all the same. never use the term 'i carried you for nine months'. if your child pass the boundary make sure you have consequences for them. make sure your kids do chores and make sure they dont slack on them. and dont be too soft on your kids because they will just walk over you.